Granted I have only been a mom for 10 months, but everyday are life lessons and here’s what I’ve learned:
1. Unconditional Love Does Exist – Just when you thought that you and hubby were soul mates, sorta true, but your true soul mate is your lil one, that is true love!
2. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff – Days and nights are not always the same, so just take one day at a time.
3. Its OK to be Silly – I am a one woman show. I dance. sing. act. My Lil’ one loves it when I sing Elmo tunes to him, I am a true comedienne.
4. Flexibility is Key – Waking up odd hours of the night to feed, cuddle and kiss your lil one is all part of the fun. Try not to take these days for granted ’cause it sure does go by fast.
5. Network – Meeting up with other mommies (new/old) can make you feel like you are not in this alone. Whatever you are going through, trust me, that same mommy has or is going through the same thing. So get out and meet a mommy today.
6. All Clothes Should Be Washable – From pants, tops, toys, you name it.
7. Your Baby is Not a Food Critic – Its ok if you lil’ one does not like your homemade food. He/she is just going through a stage and is still exploring textures. Don’t take is personally.
8. Bargain Shopping Is Fun (and a MUST!) – If you are a SAHM like me then bargin shopping is a must. Check out Ebay or Craigslist for lightly used or worn items, such as strollers, toys, games, etc.
9. Don’t Neglect Your Friends – They keep you in check. Leave you lil ones with the hubby or a family member/close friend for a few hours, this way you can reminisce about old times and catch up on the latest gossip.
10. Just a Little Patience – There are days when I feel like I am running on empty. Figuring out new and exciting ways to entertain your lil one can be exhausting, but don’t run yourself down and beat yourself over it, just kicking back and reading a good book with your lil one is just as rewarding and educationational.
Here’s a pic of Me and Lil’ B enjoying a day of Apple Picking at Warwick Valley Winery & Distillery in Warwick, NY.
If you have some lessons learned that you want to share, then send me an email at gina@mommyposh.com, your picks can be featured here online.